“So you might suspect that bitterness was beginning to set …

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“So you might suspect that bitterness was beginning to set in. I found that I would spend whole days sulking at my husband, choosing to be miserable because one way or the other, my expectations weren’t being met. Then the devil started his ministry of accusation and doubt!”

It’s definitely easy to lose yourself with such thoughts, so it’s great reading that you took notice to the whispers, seeking to bring doubt into your relationship. Many don’t notice until it’s too late and before you know it, they are ending the relationship, unaware of the reasons why.

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Private: How is my sex life any of your concern?
I think I worded this incorrectly on the premise your post on Heartbeat, was based on your experience. That was a lapse in judgment on my end, when you used the name Janet. I thought it was a nickname of sorts for you. Terribly sorry about that.

I must ask then, do you think celibacy is a concept, in your opinion of course, that can combat the over-sexualization of our society? It’s everywhere, and it begins younger each year it seems. It’s in songs, music videos, movies, magazines, etc.


Private: How is my sex life any of your concern?
Wonderful post. The explanation was rather clear and it leaves no room for interpretation, in my opinion. So I genuinely hope people do not misconstrue the message. That happens rather often online. If you could alter things, would you have remained celibate?


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